Unsolved misunderstandings are misunderstandings that will haunt you for life.


Imagine a situation.
You dk why, but suddenly you dont talk to a person anymore.
Although the was not like that in the past, of course.

You dont know why.
But you definitely didnt do anything wrong.
But you'll keep thinking and thinking,

Why?

And everyone knows that thinking and thinking all the time will lead you to think the wrong things.
Which is also called "越想越麻烦."
Or "It gets more and more complicated when you think too much."

Which is also why people always say "DONT THINK SO MUCH."
Because, its of no use!


And after you keep thinking and thinking, your emotions changes. Instead of confusion, it turns to anger and feelings of betrayal.


WRONG.


1. No asking for an explaination, just thoughts which you most probably answered yourself.

2. Those emotions are created by yourself, to hurt yourself.

3. You will only be like an enraged bull, not knowing whats going on, just charging around blindly and hurting yourself, and maybe others.



Instead of thinking, which only happens inside your brain, why not use that energy to DO something to help the situation at hand.

Like..................


approaching that person and asking everything?


At least, you'll know the truth.
Even if they say "I just didnt want to talk to you."

At least, you wont be guessing. You'll be knowing.


What if that person had a reason?
What if it was just a stupid misunderstanding?


You'll be losing a precious friend.
You'll be regretting it for life.


I'll rather sort out the misunderstandings.
Rather than being unsure of the whole situation.
I want to be able to know, in the future, that that decision of sorting things out was the best decision ever.