08 July 2012 July 08, 2012
Internship has started.
Many of us are finally having our first taste of real work life.

Some, this is not their virgin experience. :)

Well, but i guess it really does makes a difference when you are older.
People always says "You will always, always be young at heart."

Yeah sure, in the heart. But it doesnt make a difference if your body cant keep up with your heart!
Its still just a sad sad fact that we are all growing older and older day by day.

As i saw on 9gag, "Today is the oldest you've ever been, and the youngest you'll ever be again."
Yep, thats true. 


Meeting up with friends becomes such a privilege and rare occurances. 
I treasure such times more and more. 
Our centre of topics also becomes matured. 

We dont get mad at small stuff, we laugh it off instead. 
Talking about such stuff actually makes me feel weird. 
Like im some kind of old person in a (overall) young body. Haha.

Also, i am proud to announce that i have since tamed my temper!
I dont get angry as easily, i press it down; and soon, its gone

Actually, all angers are usually flared at the heat of the moment, and almost everyone regrets their actions/words soon after.

Once you realise the consequences and the bad things that happens after you lose your temper, you'll automatically think twice about if you want to do what you were about to do.

Thats right, take a moment to think!
"Why am i getting angry at this person?"
"Did he/she mean to do what he/she did?"
"Is this worth putting a thorn in our relationship?"

Well, sometimes people still feels the need to let loose the anger, of course.
But this works 90% of the time!


And, at internship, i realised something else.

Everyone is all busy with their own work, meeting up to their supervisor's expectations, making sure the period will pass smoothly, and just basically doing  well, work.

Free time is scarce.
We're all way too tired out to do other stuff that we want. On weekends, the urge to go out is lessened.
With everything piled up on us, we expect people to be more understanding towards us. 

But one thing that we all forget:
 Whatever I'm experiencing, my friend (at intern) is also (most probably) experiencing!

We ask for understanding, but how can we ask for things that we dont give to others?
This can cause much disagreements within friends.
Especially at such a trying time.

So now, im trying to be more understanding towards others, and i hope people can do the same for me too!


On a sidenote, I moved on.
When I don't see you, I don't miss you.
You walked on your path. 
And I believe, at least, not the in the near future, will our paths ever cross.
I'm happier, than when I used to be.

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